Implement control channel routing for wraith-* reserved destinations (ADR-018)

- Add control_channel.rs with WRAITH_CONTROL_DESTINATION, WRAITH_PREFIX constants
- Add ControlChannelHandler trait and ControlChannelRouter for routing logic
- Add DuplexStream supertrait for Box<dyn> compatibility
- Server handler rejects wraith-* destinations when no handler configured
- Add ForwardError type to fix pre-existing compilation error
- Unit tests: reserved detection, non-reserved pass-through, prefix matching

crates/wraith-core/src/server/mod.rs

@@ -1,3 +1,8 @@
+pub mod control_channel;
 pub mod handler;
 
+pub use control_channel::{
+    ControlChannelHandler, ControlChannelRouter, DuplexStream, WRAITH_CONTROL_DESTINATION,
+    WRAITH_PREFIX, is_reserved_destination,
+};
 pub use handler::{ProxyConfig, ProxyMode, ServerHandler};