Add ADR-029/030, implementation tasks, and spec updates for admin socket removal

Security review #005 identified critical vulnerabilities in the Unix domain
socket admin API (C1 symlink race, C2 no auth, C3 info leak, W1-W7, S1-S6).
ADR-028 (already accepted) replaces the socket with an authenticated HTTP
admin API on the health check port. This commit adds the remaining spec work:

- ADR-029: Config file TOCTOU mitigation (mtime check on reload)
- ADR-030: Store cli_allow_wildcard_bind in ConfigReloadHandle for consistent
  reload validation
- Implementation tasks for the admin HTTP migration (fix/admin-http-api),
  TOCTOU fix (fix/config-reload-toctou), and wildcard flag fix
  (fix/wildcard-flag-reload)
- Updated review #005 status to resolved with per-finding disposition
- Resolved OQ-16: POST for state-changing admin endpoints, GET for read-only
- Updated all architecture docs to reference new ADRs, use admin_key_path
  instead of admin_socket_path, and reflect POST method for /admin/reload

docs/architecture/decisions/027-admin-socket-resource-limits.md

@@ -2,7 +2,9 @@
 
 ## Status
 
-Accepted
+Deprecated — the Unix domain socket admin API has been replaced by an
+authenticated HTTP admin endpoint (ADR-028). Socket resource limits are no
+longer needed.
 
 ## Context