Add disposeFiber() function that performs bottom-up teardown of fiber
subtrees: recursively disposes children before parents, calls
host.finalizeInstance for per-instance cleanup, invokes signal disposers,
and clears fiber state. Idempotent via disposed flag. Does NOT call
host.removeChild (that's the commit phase's job).
- Add disposeFiber + HostLike to src/host/fiber.ts
- Add finalizeInstance to HostConfig interface
- Add disposed boolean to Fiber interface
- Export disposeFiber and HostLike from barrel
- Add 7 tests for disposeFiber (3-level tree, idempotency, signal cleanup, etc.)
